Tuesday, December 20, 2005

Every Father’s Secret Wish List

What is on your Father’s secret wish list?

All men must have a special list of items they would like for Christmas. Here is a just a few of what might be on a wish list for a man.

The first one I would put on the list is a trip to baseball spring training. They would go with a bunch of friends, who were also fans of the same team; watch games and socialize with the players. Remember this is a “wish” list. Going along with the same theme, how about a trip to a baseball or football camp for adults? These camps are usually hosted by former players and allow them to fulfill their dreams of playing as a pro player.

Another item on the wish list for men would be a hunting trip or a fishing extravaganza. Maybe their dream is to go to the wilds of Alaska to hunt, or to go deep-sea fishing. A guided tour for a hunting party and a professional fisherman to give tips and help catching the “big one” are great gifts.

Maybe your Father’s wish list includes a new fishing boat, new gear, or a new camping trailer. The great outdoors beckons them and these might be items they are wishing for to make their time outdoors more memorable and fun. Strapped for cash? How about a new tent, Coleman stove, and lanterns. A new sleeping bag to keep him warm and cozy on his nights out in the woods could be his favorite wish.

How about a golf outing in the Carolinas? If your Father enjoys golf, a trip to golf in the middle of winter could be just his cup of tea. Ok, can’t send him on a trip? There are other things that can make a golfing Father happy. Personalized tees and golf balls a new putter or a new golf bag is suggestions to make your Father happy. If you live in a warm climate already, you could buy him a golfing pass to one of your local golf courses.

One famous Father was given the gift of his first car, fully restored, and given to him by a loving family. His wish might be an accessory to a car he has or is rebuilding.

On a practical note, one wish he might have is to have a handyman come to his home and complete all those little “honey do” lists that have been waiting for him to complete. Just think a professional to come in, repair the dripping faucet, or replace the old showerhead. Clearing up the lists could give your Father some extra time to spend with his children, have a little relaxing time or maybe read the latest novel he hasn’t had time to read yet.

Ah, season tickets to his favorite team. That has to be a big one on the Father wish list. Imagine the thrill of being able to root for his team at all the home games in one of the best seats in the house.

Another wish on a Father’s list is a little more practical. I believe that wish would be to be able to spend more time with his family. Go to more soccer games, drive his daughter to her dance class and take his wife out for a night on the town. Father’s are usually the main support of the family and it’s very important for him to know that he’s loved and appreciated. Feel free to give him an extra hug, or a promise to do one of his chores. A coupon book made by his family could include coupons that he could redeem for a little free time. Here are some coupon ideas for you.

I will take out the trash for the week.

I will mow the grass this week.

I will wash the car and clean it out.

I will fix you a hearty special breakfast.

One free weekend pass to do whatever you want.

I know there are many other ideas that would only pertain to your Dad. What do you think his wishes are?

One father I know was pleased to receive a key ring made with his grandchildren’s picture encased in plastic. He carried it around for several years and only recently took them off his key ring because the pictures were so outdated.

Craft gifts made by their children will be treasured when the child gives them and made with their own hands.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

hmmm...from what I gather from your wish list, time really is the greatest gift isn't it?
Happy Holidays!
Tab

Anonymous said...

well, hell i am truly lost. why are you in maine. it is mighty cold there what about all the kitty cats and doggies? it's chritmas in santa barbara !!!!! but i aint playing any christmas music ...okay I WILL NOT send any more dam boxes.!@@#$%^&*()_+::"?